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Showing posts with label job frustration. Show all posts
Showing posts with label job frustration. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Two Key Ingredients to Success: Passion and Focus!

TEN:15. Lather, rinse, repeat.Image by revbean via Flickr I've had many conversations around a question similar to this: "How in the world do I succeed in today's volatile economic climate?" So many variables have to be considered when asking this question. For today, however, I will discuss two main ingredients in the overall formula for success. These two seem quite obvious, but are absolutely essential if you are ever going to gain traction in your current employment, or with a business idea you may be considering. These two ingredients are Passion and Focus!
Have you ever tried to do anything without passion? It's like having hair in your tooth paste. It's just not quite right. You go through the motions; go to work, put out fires, answer phone calls and emails, try to identify new business opportunities, try to please the boss, then go home. Rinse and repeat day in and day out. If you don't have some vested interest in the work you are trying to get done, you will NEVER; let me say it one more time...NEVER be truly successful. Let me tell you what I mean when I say "successful." One, you won't be personally fulfilled or satisfied by the work you are doing. Two, boredom will set in and we all know "Idle time is the Devil's playground." Three, you will become easily distracted and won't be able to provide your full, undivided attention to the task at hand!! What happens then? You basically do half-baked work that gets you through to the next paycheck! No recognition, no accolades, no pay increases, no promotion. What kind of life is that??? This brings me to my next point.
Focus. When you are distracted, you do completely lose focus. Imagine a baseball player stepping up to the plate to take a swing when suddenly their vision becomes blurry. The chances of that batter hitting the ball, let along hitting a home run, jut greatly diminished. This is EXACTLY what happens to us when we lose focus in our jobs. We DON'T hit the home run! We DON'T get on base! We DON'T miraculously become successful by missing the ball! We become even more disgruntled with our current situation and desperation sets in to find the next new thing. This is a CRAZY REVOLVING DOOR that just won't stop unless you do something about it!
So, as you continue through this week and into the future, write down these two words on a piece of paper, on a mirror, or at least somewhere where you can see them daily; Passion and Focus. Think about what you are passionate about so you can slowly shift your career to focus on that indulgence. Your life, family, friends and career will all feel the significant positive effects of the two simple words "focused" on today! Cheers to your success!!

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Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Discomfort in My Daily Job

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So here I go. Once again, I change course just a bit in an attempt to fine-tune exactly what I'm going to blog about on a daily basis. First of all, I guess I better get into a routine in order to come remotely close to daily blogging. Who wants to come to a blog where there are only one or two posts every few months, right?? Exactly! So, here is my promise to write on a much more consistent basis.

Today, I talk about conversations I've had over the last couple of years with GREAT friends of mine that all feel the same way about their daily lives. What do I hear almost daily? "I HATE my job!" If I had a dollar for every time I've heard this phrase...But, is that what's really causing your "pain," or is it a slue of other variables causing grief between your ears? \

I have GREAT news! Your job is NOT the problem! It's YOU!!! In fact, when you really start to dissect what's happening between your ears, you realize there are multiple variables going on in your life at any given time that give the ILLUSION of your job being the root cause of all of your problems. Even if it's not your job you point the finger at, I guarantee you are pointing it in some direction, and in a direction where there is no mirror in front of you! At any given point in time, if you are having these negative feelings, you can put a "stop-loss" on this train of thought, and start thinking positively. You know, I used to think this was a bunch of hogwash, but there is something very real about positive affirmation, and eliminating those negative thoughts that creep up in all of our minds the second they come up. In fact, if you don't stop the negative thoughts when they creep up into your conscience, you will definitively notice your day won't improve much, and by all means, your performance will suffer greatly!

For example, my performance lately has been lackluster, and my numbers are not on my planned trajectory for calendar year success. So, I've had to consider what the cause of this could be. Well, first of all, I've been in contact with other VERY NEGATIVE people in my company over the last few weeks. These people complain if it's raining, then they complain if the sun comes out, then it's too hot, or too cold. You get the picture. While I've always considered myself an optimist, these negative conversations greatly effect not only my mood, by my overall outlook on life. It's POISON!

So, what do we do? First of all, it is absolutely imperative you surround yourself with POSITIVE PEOPLE! Shorten those conversations with the negative people. If they call you on your cell phone, greet them and then politely ask them what they need because you are on a tight time schedule. This prevents them from taking that deep-dive into negative waters. Also, when you do this a few times, most people will get the hint that something bigger is going on, and they will either stop calling you "just to chat," and/or they will start thinking about their own performance. Secondly, be VERY AWARE of your thoughts as you move through the day. The second, and I mean THE SECOND a negative thought comes into your mind, squash it! Immediately tell yourself, "I'm going to perform at MY BEST today, and there is nothing or no one that can stop me!" Remember, you don't have to worry about outperforming someone else, as long as you perform to the best of your abilities.

I know this sounds simplistic, and maybe a bit quacky to some of you, but when you follow these two simple rules, you will notice that you begin to enjoy your job again; or maybe your spouse; or, even your life in general.

Try these things, and give me feedback on your thoughts! Do you use positive affirmation in your life now? What do you tell yourself when things start to go awry? I would love to hear your thoughts! Until next time...

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